When Death Passed By Our Door
My cozy space to think out loud and make sense of life in real time. I explore psychology, faith, emotions, identity and everything in between. Not as an expert, but as a girl trying to figure it all out with honesty. If you're tired of vague advice and surface level healing. You're at the right place ♡. If you love journaling, deep talks and figuring life out slowly, you'll feel right at home here ๐ก๐
Welcome ❤️
Still sharing my unfiltered thoughts and heartbeats ๐งธ๐๐
Have you ever woken up full of plans... dreaming of a productive day.... wanting a perfect day,
only to find yourself scrolling through your phone, napping and doing nothing???
And then comes that heavy scary thought ๐ค๐ญ:
"What if everyday of my life stays this boring and stuck ๐ฅบ๐?"
"Am I wasting my life ๐?"
I want you to know something gently and true ๐ฉท. You're not alone ❤๐ฉน
Don't be hard on yourself ๐ซ , what you're feeling is so real and human ✨
๐ Firstly ☕๐:
You didn't waste the day ๐. Your body and mind probably needed a rest and you didn't even realise.
Scrolling, resting and feeling unaccomplished..... that's just your system asking for a pause, not failure ๐
๐ Secondly ☕๐
Feeling stuck and feeling like you're doing "nothing" is actually a sign you care deeply about your life ❣️.
If you didn't care, you wouldn't even notice the pattern.
The frustration you feel is because you have dreams you want to reach๐ฅบ... and that's a good thing ๐ฑ๐
๐ Thirdly ☕๐
The scary feeling of "what if everyday is like this?" happens when you're tired, overwhelmed or unsure of the next small step.
It's not your future.... it's just a tired ๐ด mind speaking ❤๐ฉน
๐ท Gentle truths:
๐: You don't have to fix your whole life in one day
๐: You don't have to be productive every second to feel valuable
๐: One boring or slow day doesn't mean your life is stuck forever
๐ธ Soft Steps You Can Try๐ธ
๐ Tonight: forgive yourself for today. Say "I'm allowed to have off days. I'm human"
๐ Tomorrow: make a tiny, no pressure goal
๐ Celebrate even the smallest thing you do. Even waking up early or drinking water.
Sending you a soft hug for the meantime ๐งธ๐๐ค, you're not alone in this, I promise ๐ฉท
Some days you move mountains ๐.
Some days you rest, both are progress๐ท๐
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