When Death Passed By Our Door
My cozy space to think out loud and make sense of life in real time. I explore psychology, faith, emotions, identity and everything in between. Not as an expert, but as a girl trying to figure it all out with honesty. If you're tired of vague advice and surface level healing. You're at the right place ♡. If you love journaling, deep talks and figuring life out slowly, you'll feel right at home here ๐ก๐
Still sharing my unfiltered thoughts and heartbeats ๐๐.
Have you been feeling a little sad and out of place ๐ - like maybe I'm not doing life "right"?.
It kinda seems like the people around you are moving fast ⏩, achieving big things, staying busy, being loud ....and always telling you to "do more", "be more" or "stay active"
And it hurts sometimes.
Because while people are moving forward, you feel stuck and you ask yourself "what if I don't get there๐คง?"
It's okay if you feel like, you're still learning how to achieve things ❤๐ฉน
It's okay to feel like you're still learning how to love yourself ๐ or still learning how to fit in ❤️.
It's frustrating when others look at your life and you're not doing enough ๐.
Maybe it's too quiet for them
Maybe you're not moving fast enough
Maybe your journey looks too different for them to understand ๐.
Maybe people encourage you to make it in life fast, or pressure you to achieve something cuz your mates have achieved it.
Maybe they mock and laugh at how you express yourself and live your life..... because it's different and it seems odd ๐๐
But you know what?.....
It's your life ๐. Your pace ๐ค. Your voice ❤️.
You're not here to rush, you're here to grow ๐ฑ๐.
Why choose to slow down?
๐: Because life is not a race
๐: You can't measure your growth with someone's ruler
๐: If you're always rushing, you can miss the best and exciting moments of your life ❤️
The truth is, slow ๐ฆฅ doesn't mean stuck ๐คง❤๐ฉน
Sometimes the quiet seasons are the ones where you're growing the most ๐ฑ๐.
You have to acknowledge that not all progress is loud ๐คซ.
Some of the strongest people are the ones who keep going softly, gently without needing the world's approval ๐.
So maybe you're not behind at all.... maybe you're exactly where you need to be ๐ฅน❤️.
If you ever feel like you're "too slow ๐ฆฅ", "too different" or "not enough".......just breathe ๐
You don't need to follow someone else's timeline. You don't need to prove anything to people who don't understand your journey ๐ช๐. You're allowed to grow quietly. To heal slowly. To build a life that feels right to you❤️
๐: You're not late. You're not lost. You're just on a different road and that's perfectly okay ๐
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