When Death Passed By Our Door

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  Welcome to Gurlfriend Ruls  where real thoughts meets real change ☕๐Ÿ’• So I've started a new blog at  ๐ŸŽ€ Gurlfriend Ruls ❤️ ๐Ÿฅน❤️ I want to educate, inform, advice and inspire all the overwhelmed girlies going through a lot in life ☹️๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’”....all my girlies who are tired of surface level advice ☹️๐Ÿซ ๐Ÿ’” Cuz honestly speaking, I have been really traumatized since last year....I have experienced so much hurt and pain that it has honestly affected me ๐Ÿซ ❤️‍๐Ÿฉน Cuz if you honestly read my blog posts....they are really really sad and depressing ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿคง❤️‍๐Ÿฉน I'm not proud of it but like I am ๐Ÿ˜ญ❤️‍๐Ÿฉน I do have happy days and a lot of sad days ๐Ÿ˜ญ❤️‍๐Ÿฉน So yh I've been busy with my new blog ๐Ÿฅน❤️ Trying to tweak and work it out ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿฅฐ❤️ It's live so you can check it out ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿ’– So today 10 March, 2026 has been one of my worst days ๐Ÿ’” I wish today didn't happen and I would never in my life, want to re live today ๐Ÿ’” So my dad would have died hours before I woke up....he was attacked by ro...

Just Me, No Pressure: Creating For the Love of It.


Ever felt like you're creating something just for trends, always trying to "get it right" but it gets you nowhere?

J.Moon here still sharing my heartbeats and Unfiltered Thoughts ๐Ÿ’—

For the past 2 years, I've been caught up in the chase - trying to follow trends, do what's "popular" and create things the way I thought it "should" be ๐Ÿฅน.

 I've blogged with pressure in the back of my mind๐Ÿฅฒ, posted content to match what was expected and edited myself to fit into boxes that never really felt like me๐Ÿซ ❤‍๐Ÿฉน.

So I realised something ❤‍๐Ÿฉน..... I've reached the point where I don't want to any of that anymore ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ’”. 

I don't want to create because I have to, or do something because it's trending ๐Ÿ‘€.

 I just want to share what makes me feel joy ๐Ÿ˜Š, peace ๐Ÿ•Š️, softness ๐Ÿฅบ, nostalgia ๐ŸŒฑ and comfort ๐Ÿฅฒ๐Ÿ’–

And that's why I started posting differently ๐Ÿ™‚‍↕. I'm letting go of perfectionism ๐Ÿ˜ that held me back ๐Ÿฅบ and learning to just let it flow๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’—.

Not for views๐Ÿฅน...Not for followers๐Ÿฅน

Just for the girl wanting to inspire others with her voice ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿฉท

I realised that creating something without pressure is one of the most healing things you can do ๐ŸŒฑ๐Ÿ’•

It's where your true voice shines through ๐Ÿ”❤️

It isn't about giving up, it's about coming home ๐Ÿก๐Ÿ’•.

So whether you're sharing random photos that make you happy or writing unfiltered posts full of tangled thoughts.... there's nothing wrong with it ๐Ÿซ ❤️‍๐Ÿ”ฅ. 

As long as it makes you happy, it's beautiful and enough ❤️

To anyone else feeling burnt out from chasing trends๐Ÿฅบ:

๐ŸŽ€: You don't have to keep running ๐Ÿ’จ 

๐ŸŽ€: You're allowed to slow down ๐Ÿ˜Œ

๐ŸŽ€: You're allowed to create without a purpose or to challenge anyone ๐Ÿฉต

Because sometimes the most powerful thing you can do, is just be yourself ๐ŸŒธ๐Ÿ’•

Create from the heart ❤️, not for the crowd ๐Ÿ‘ฅ๐Ÿ’”


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